“For who will testify, who will accurately describe our lives if we do not do it ourselves?”: Recent Lesbian Memoirs

I’ve been on a memoir reading binge lately. Every time I turned around there seemed to be another lesbian memoir demanding my attention. Below is a list of my recent reads. Though they range in time (the 1950s to the present day) and place (the LES to North Dakota), the issues these women grapple with are the same: coming out, coming into her own, breaking through silences, establishing relationships, becoming the subject of her own story—which is all we can all only strive for, really.

Happy reading.

9781580054324Riding Fury Home by Chana Wilson

A powerful mother-daughter memoir, contrasting the heart breaking, soul crushing experience of Wilson’s mother (until the women’s movement!) with Wilson’s own coming out. I wished her mom had written a book, but if this is the closest we’ll get, I’ll take it.

16065411My Awesome Place by Cheryl Burke

A survival story—from family dysfunction, drinking, and drugs to poet and powerhouse.




My Almost Certainly Real Imaginary Jesus by Kelly Barth

If you’ve been raised a certain way and defined by those beliefs, what do you do when you no longer belong? Who are you then? Barth stumbled and struggled down this long, twisty road and it is entirely worth it. Rejecting a particular religious doctrine is only the first step; finding a new theology and a community is just as important and harrowing.


Licking the Spoon by Candace Walsh

Food memoirs always have a place at my table and I really wanted to love this one more. It started out strong for me but as the author comes to terms with her sexuality, leaves her husband, and finds love again, I found myself skimming pages—and missing the food.

HOFFERT-PrairieSilencePrairie Silence by Melanie Hoffert

Maybe it’s just because I live in New York, but I think I’ve burnt out on the coming of age memoir on the wild streets of NYC in the 1950s/60s/70s/80s/90s. The winds of the North Dakota plains were very welcome here and Hoffert’s poignant sketch of rural life, coming out—and going back home—is a welcome new voice.

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5 Responses to “For who will testify, who will accurately describe our lives if we do not do it ourselves?”: Recent Lesbian Memoirs

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  2. Lesbianism in 1989 …

    “Lesbian Crushes and Bulimia is a year’s worth of diary entries that chronicle with terrifying frankness the author, Natasha Holme’s, first lesbian crushes and her descent into disordered eating. The stark candor of the account paints a fascinating portrait of a person and a specific time in recent history.”

  3. Chana Wilson says:

    Thanks for the wonderful listing for Riding Fury Home and for your terrific book blog! If readers would like to hear my mother’s voice, you can go to the memoir’s website. On the “Listen” page, there are seven 1-2 minute clips from a radio interview I did with her in 1974 on Pacifica’s KPFA. The website is:http://www.RidingFuryHome.com

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